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Cher Turns 80: The LGBTQ+ Icon Reflects on Six Decades of Reinvention, Love and Legacy

Cher – the Oscar-winning actor, chart-topping singer, fashion revolutionary and enduring LGBTQ+ icon – celebrates her 80th birthday today, May 20, 2026, marking a milestone for one of entertainment’s most resilient and endlessly reinventing forces.

Born Cheryl Sarkisian in El Centro, California, in 1946, Cher overcame poverty and undiagnosed dyslexia as a child before leaving school and moving to Los Angeles at 16. There, she met and later married Salvatore “Sonny” Bono, forming the iconic 1960s duo Sonny & Cher and scoring a worldwide hit with “I Got You Babe”.

Cher is the only artist to have landed a number‑one single on the Billboard chart in six consecutive decades, a feat she shares only with the Rolling Stones. Her 1998 dance hit “Believe” helped usher auto‑tune effects into mainstream pop music.

The New York Times once called her the “Queen of the Comeback”. In her memoirs, she wrote: “It’s a thousand times harder to come back than it is to become famous.” Yet she has done exactly that, again and again.

Lifelong LGBTQ+ Ally

 

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Cher has been a steadfast supporter of the LGBTQ+ community virtually since the start of her career. In 1979, she became the first mainstream pop star to hire drag queens as part of her Las Vegas residency at Caesar’s Palace.

In 1999, she received amfAR’s Award of Courage for her HIV/AIDS awareness and fundraising work. Her advocacy became especially personal when her son, Chaz Bono, began transitioning in 2008. Cher has spoken candidly about her own learning process as a parent, demonstrating that love does not require perfection – only listening, learning and continuing to show up.

On Aging, Love and Family Turmoil

True to form, Cher has not softened her views on getting older. In a recent interview with The Guardian, she admitted: “I hate it. It hasn’t made me any wiser”. Yet she continues to work relentlessly.

When Barbra Streisand asked why she still tours, Cher replied: “Because I won’t be able to do it one day. As long as I can work, I will. I love what I do”.

Cher has also been romantically linked to 39‑year‑old music executive Alexander “AE” Edwards. Despite a nearly 40‑year age gap, she has brushed off criticism, telling Gayle King on CBS Mornings: “Whatever. Nobody knows what goes on between us, but we just have a blast”. Rumors that the couple might marry around her 80th birthday have circulated, though representatives have denied the story.

However, the milestone has not been without private stress. According to sources, Cher is reportedly struggling emotionally as her 80th birthday approaches, overshadowed by her son Elijah Blue Allman’s legal battle. A court trial is scheduled for June 16, and earlier efforts by Cher to obtain temporary conservatorship over her son were denied.

Never Slowing Down

At 80, Cher shows no signs of retirement. She recently released a Christmas album, launched an ice‑cream brand called “Cherlato”, published the first volume of her memoirs, and is working on a biographical film about her life. She has also received a Bambi award, an honorary Grammy and was inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame.

As fans around the world celebrate her 80th birthday, they are honoring not just her music, movies and fashion, but the values that helped make her a queer icon: authenticity, reinvention, defiance and survival. After six decades in the spotlight, Cher remains, as ever, “strong enough”.