Am I Nonbinary Quiz – Questioning Your Gender? Let Us Help You!

If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “I don’t totally relate to being a guy or a girl… is that a thing?” — guess what? You’re not the only one.

Exploring your gender identity can be a deeply personal, and sometimes it helps to take a little pause, reflect, and ask yourself: What actually feels right for me? That’s where this quiz comes in.

Like our “Am I Gay” quiz, this isn’t some official, life-defining test—it’s just a chill, thoughtful (and maybe a little fun) way to explore how you relate to gender and see if anything clicks along the way.

Am I Nonbinary Quiz

A reflective quiz to help you explore your connection to gender and see if you might resonate with being nonbinary. No pressure, no labels—just vibes and self-discovery.

1 / 15

When someone calls you by your name, how do you usually feel?

Sometimes I imagine being called something different

It works fine; I don’t question it

It’s familiar, but occasionally feels a little distant

I often feel like it doesn’t quite reflect who I am

2 / 15

What type of clothing do you feel most comfortable in?

Something that helps me feel like myself, whatever that is

I usually just stick to what’s practical

I enjoy playing around with different styles now and then

I go with whatever feels expected or standard

3 / 15

How did you feel about gendered roles growing up?

I found them odd or limiting even as a kid

I went along with them but didn’t think too hard about it

I sometimes felt a quiet mismatch

I didn’t have any particular issue with them

4 / 15

How do you usually feel about being grouped with others based on gender?

I tend to notice it, but don’t feel strongly either way

It often feels like I’ve been placed in a group I don’t belong to

It’s a normal part of life, nothing strange about it

Sometimes I’m unsure why it feels slightly off

5 / 15

If you had to describe yourself with one word, which would you choose?

Curious

Grounded

Expansive

Evolving

6 / 15

How do you respond to gendered terms used about you (e.g., sir/ma’am, boy/girl)?

I notice them, but they don’t really stick with me

I tend to brush them off without much thought

I often wish people used more neutral language

Sometimes it makes me feel slightly disconnected

7 / 15

What matters most to you about how you present yourself?

Feeling like I’m expressing something uniquely me

Being comfortable and not standing out

Looking polished in a way others expect

Having the freedom to shift and explore over time

8 / 15

How do you relate to masculinity or femininity?

I enjoy blending aspects of both when I can

I tend to feel most at ease outside of either category

I identify more clearly with one than the other

I think about it occasionally but not deeply

9 / 15

What’s your experience like when seeing your reflection or photos of yourself?

I rarely think about it—it’s just me

Sometimes I don’t recognize what others see

It varies depending on context and mood

I usually feel mostly fine with it

10 / 15

How often do you think about your identity or how others perceive you?

Occasionally, when something makes me pause

Very often—it’s a regular part of my inner life

From time to time, especially in unfamiliar situations

Rarely—it’s not something that crosses my mind much

11 / 15

How do you feel about being referred to as “he” or “she”?

It’s familiar and mostly fits

I’ve wondered what it’d be like to use other pronouns

I’m neutral but open to alternatives

I usually prefer something different or more fluid

12 / 15

If you could hit a reset button on how people saw you, what would you change?

I’d probably keep things as they are

I’d make space for more ambiguity

I’d shift a few things here and there

I’m not sure—I’d have to explore it first

13 / 15

What kind of characters in books or shows do you connect with most?

Characters who exist in-between or don’t fit neatly into roles

Characters who push against norms in subtle ways

Characters with a strong, defined identity

Characters who figure themselves out over time

14 / 15

How do you feel when others make assumptions based on how you look?

I don’t mind—it’s understandable

I sometimes feel out of sync with how I’m seen

I often wish I could defy or confuse those assumptions

I notice it, but try not to dwell on it

15 / 15

Which statement resonates most with you?

I feel like I move through categories rather than sit inside them

I’m mostly content with the identity I’ve always had

I’ve had quiet questions about identity for a while

I try not to think too much about it either way

Did you like this quiz? If you did, you should check out our “Am I Trans” quiz to explore your personality and identity even further!